While having brunch at a girlfriend’s house I met an interesting woman that lives a lifestyle that many frown upon. I found her story so intriguing that I asked if I can interview her. After going back and forth Paige agreed. Below you will find her story.

Please note, Readers discretion is advised due to strong suggestive language and images.

Since college at Columbia University I’ve been sexually free. I loved porn & watched it all the time. Every time my roommate wasn’t home I would go online to get my fix. Though at the time I had never been with a female before, I got turned on seeing women having sex. I would then have fantasies about being with other females. I finally was presented with the opportunity of a threesome with a guy friend, Thomas & his girlfriend Sara. I must say it was an experience. In my mind I was like *am I really doing this?* I liked it. It was everything I thought it would be. Of course my skills were very limited but Sara was a good teacher.

Since my first Threesome experience with Sara & Thomas, it has been normal for me to partake in them. I would always treat my boyfriends to them every 2 months & they would be very very happy. One night while at a strip club with my girlfriends, I noticed a husband & wife, Simone & Paul, not picking up strippers or chicks, but going after men. At first I was like eww that is gay until I approached them a started a conversation. They explained to me that they not only do MFF/ male-female-female Threesome, they do MMF/ male-male-female Threesome. Simone then went on & explained to me that she is a swinger & loves being with two men & her husband Paul loves watching her be pleased by other men. The 2 of them also have sex with other married couples. Now, I was blown away. My man would NEVER go for that. I can share him with another female but not over his dead body would he let another man touch me.

I left Simone & Paul thinking about our conversation. I want to experience being with another man while my boyfriend watches. Or instead of him watching he’s with another female in the same room. This thought cultivated into a fantasy. I began secretly fantasizing about becoming a swinger & me and my boyfriend indulging in this lifestyle. I would watch swinger or group porn. I even read swinger erotic stories. But all in all, I knew, they were just fantasies.

It’s July 10, 2007 & I’m out with the girls celebrating my break up. I wanted to stay home but my girls coaxed me out the house.  Young successful women out on the town all single & ready to party took NYC by storm. It was some football player’s birthday going on at the club. Me & my girls rented a banquet next to the birthday crew & purchased bottle for bottle. During the partying the birthday boy’s best friend Jonathan approached me & tried to court me. My skeptical ass just kept him at bay. By the end of the night we were soooooo hammered, I let my guard down & let Jonathan take me home. Let’s just say my night was eventful. The next day we went to dinner & actually got to know each other. During our dinner conversation Jonathan told me he was a swinger. OMG! I screeched. He has been in the lifestyle for 9 years. He’s been divorced for 2 years & looking to get back into it. Well needless to say, 3 years later I am the HBIC- Head Bitch In Charge in his life now.

Since being with Jonathan I’ve been enthralled in the life style. When we first started dating we built an understanding of each other. He told me this was important before we played with other couples. All I did was follow his lead. He was my teacher & I was his student. He told me the different types of swing such as soft swap vs. full swap. He told me what to look out for, such as the dark side to swinging & the great times.

“What’s the password!” mumbled by a tall heavyset man from behind a steel door. “Big wheel,” Jonathan exerted. As the door opened the man at the door greeted us, “Welcome to Heaven“, as we walked thru the steel door I felt like I just walked into a scene from the 1920’s. Jonathan decided that my first swing experience be at a very exclusive upscale underground party. He told me that by going to a party I will be able to witness all forms of swinging in one place. As I walked into the place I noticed it had character. I felt like I was at a speakeasy, all I needed was a feather boa and cigarette holder w/ a cigarette. It was about 100 people chatting a drinking. Food was being served by naked waiters. As I was looking around I was looking at people’s faces. Everyone looked so normal like librarians, teachers, nurses, etc. I don’t know what I expected, but I didn’t expect to see “regular” people here. But as I’m observing I was thinking, “This isn’t that bad”. All I seen was people talking to each other naked. In my mind I was like, “I can handle this.” As Jonathan gave me the tour of the place things changed. In the back of the venue the 1920’s feel diminish. It was more modern and updated. There were about 8 private themed rooms, a locker room with showers, a huge 20 person jacuzzi, and a huge room called the Orgy Room. Well, when I reached the back to the orgy room I let out a huge gasp and clutched my imaginary pearls. I could not believe what I was looking at. I felt like I was on set of the biggest porn orgy scene ever. It was maybe 40 people in the orgy room intermingled. This one woman was being DP’d (double penetrated) by to guys and another guy’s penis in her mouth. Now while the female that was being DP’d was given this guy a blowjob, he was kissing another girl that had someone sexing her from behind. While that was going on there were other couples having sex in the room. I was SOOOO overwhelmed at what I was seeing. Jonathan turned to me and asked me if I was OK and I turned to him and nodded. Though I was overwhelmed I was getting turned on.

After we showered and changed out of our clothes to our birthday suits we explored more. Another young sexy couple approached us and made small talk. After about 15 minutes they invited us into one of the theme rooms. This ladies & gentleman was the beginning of me officially entering the Swingers Lifestyle. I wasn’t as nervous as I thought. I guess it was from the shots of Grey Goose that calmed me down. But as we were in the room I instantly targeted & preyed on the female. I went to her and started kissing her on her lips. While I was kissing her I was caressing her body. I started from the shoulders and slowly worked my way down. I knew the guys were watching so I took my time. As I caressed her breast I noticed her nipples quickly erected. As I was about to suck them she pulled my hair and led me to the bed. Mmmmmm rough? I like it that way so I submitted to her. She pushed me on the bed and started having her way with me. She kissed me and then traced her tongue down my body starting with my neck, then to my breast. She spent extra time on my full D-cups. Then she continued down to my belly and then she ended between my legs. She was definitely a pro! She had me moving & squirming. She was so good that she made me do something that I NEVER did in my life; she made me squirt. It was like a sprinkler went off inside of me. I was sooo embarrassed but the couple and Jonathan just smiled and gave each other a hi-five. After I wiped myself down the guy came to me and started kissing me. Then he took my head and eased it down to his manhood & I went to town on it. I looked up and saw Jonathan with a big grin on his face. Then he said, “Baby, you look beautiful. Do your thing.” As I continued to pleasure the guy I heard, “oh, and don’t embarrass me, take care him like you would Me.” Once I heard my baby give me his blessing something took over me and I was an animal. He was so turned on, that after he finished with the guy’s wife he came and joined in. For the first time I was pleasuring two men at once. That night my baby and I played with about 7 couples. When we left and arrived home at 6am we enjoyed each other alone.

Since that one night at Heaven me and Jonathan has evolved together in the lifestyle with each other. We are a staple in the lifestyle and we host our own exclusive parties that so many people from all over even outside of NY send requests to be invited.

WOW!!!! I must say that your story is very interesting and explicit. I don’t think I can do what you do, but I will say that I won’t judge you. However, though I may not judge you, how do you react or handle people that do?
Jonathan: Well there aren’t many that judge us because we are VERY discreet. Do to our professions it is not an option to shout from the rooftops that we are swingers. Its not that we are ashamed, we just like what we like, but don’t want other people to like what we like.

Paige: I agree with Jonathan. Very limited people know what we do. And the ones that do know are actually curious. If they are not they respect that fact that we are adults and will do what we want to do. Sexually people are scared to act upon things because they are scared they will be judged. Every single woman is a whore. She just wont act upon it because she feels the guy will judge her. I was there once and I know the feeling. Being in the lifestyle allows you to fulfill you sexual fantasies without being judged.

How does Swinging affect your relationship? Has it strained or enhanced your relationship?
Jonathan: besides money sex is the main reason for problems in a relationship. By swinging, it allows us to enjoy each other and also enjoy other people. If I’m craving another woman Paige allows me to satisfy that craving and vice versa. We respect communicate with each other more. We understand each other. Don’t get me wrong, we do have personal issues in our relationship like any other couple, but sex is definitely not one. I may also add Paige is now my now fiancé

Congrats!
Jonathan & Paige: Thank you

What is your advice for any couple who is interested in joining the lifestyle?
Jonathan: respect, understanding, and communication are key. This lifestyle is not for everyone. You must genuinely be turned on by your mate being with someone else. You must communicate your concerns and insecurities with each other and be sexually sound before you dabble.

Paige: if anyone is uncomfortable or pressured into the lifestyle is will be disastrous and may end the relationship.

What kind of people are swingers?
Paige: oh my, we swing with so many kinds of people. White, Black, Asian, Spanish, Native American, Middle Eastern, doctors, lawyers, teachers, celebrities, athletes, judges, blue collar workers, etc. You would be shocked at who you will see.

Jonathan: Swinging is a secret society. Once you go in deep enough you will be surrounded by very influential people.

WOW Celebs? Like who?
Jonathan: we are not at liberty to say

Jonathan how do you feel seeing your woman with another man?
I think its major turn-on to see how she pleasures him like she pleasures me. I like seeing men lust after her. It all goes back to the saying, “you want what everyone else wants.” In my mind I know I have her and you just only get a taste of what I have all the time.

Is safe sex being practice? Are you scared of catching anything?
Jonathan: YES. Condoms are worn at all times. A lot of hosts require that when you submit a request to their party that you provide papers.

Paige: Also to be honest it is the same risk that you take when you meet someone at a lounge or club or out & about and decide at some point you will sleep with them.

What are the rules you live by?
Jonathan: I must use condoms and no kissing

Paige: I can’t let another guy cum on my face or in my mouth or do anal. Jonathan is the only one that has those privileges.

What is the swing lingo you guys use?
Soft Swap: Having sex with your mate in the same room with another couple.
Full/ Hard Swap: When two couples have sex with each others partner.
Exhibitionist: Having sex with a partner while being watched.
Voyeur: Sexual pleasure from observing other people
Vanilla: “Normal” people who do not swing

All names were changed to protect the identity of the interviewees.

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